Our traditional upbringing is built on the fact that a child can, and sometimes needs to be spanked for offense. Or – put in the corner. Or – whip a towel lower back. Well, who did not go through this in childhood? But with the punishment of children, things are not so simp.
Slaps and cuffs show the child that beating is normal. Especially when a big one hits a small one, a strong one hits a weak one. Children begin to think that any problem can be solved with the help of force, and in the future they will resort to it in relations with their peers, spouses, and their own children. Continue reading
Many of us, experiencing fatal bad luck, at least once, blamed their parents for this. According to some, they are too harsh or vice versa, they were careless about our upbringing, we received little attention, were often abandoned alone, or disposed of us, sending them to grandmother.
Why is it that all the failures, children blame their parents?
Hard childhood. Continue reading
Parents should always remember that their children need their understanding and attention, and sometimes protection. After all, it happens that a child is being persecuted at school by their classmates, but parents do not even know about it. Most often, this is due to the complex relationship between the teenager and the parents. And also due to the fact that many parents blame their children for everything, show mistrust towards them. Therefore, a teenager does not share his problems with them.
How to support the child who has undergone bulling? Continue reading